Monthly Archives: November 2008

Don’t know whatcha got till it’s gone

Jon is working out of town today. This is rare event for him now, a fact for which I am insanely grateful. Two weeks ago he was gone for two whole days and I walked around feeling like I’d lost a limb. And maybe being a bit mopey. So when he confirmed today’s trip I sighed with relief that it wouldn’t be overnight. This week has flown past crammed with work and elections and wrestling matches so it was with a slight jolt that I realized last night that within hours he would be driving into the mountains. Suddenly his presence next to me was overwhelming and all consuming. I wanted to be as close to him as possible and didn’t want to sleep (thankfully my body was a bit more rational than my conscious mind and knocked my ass out quickly). I spent a little longer hugging and kissing him goodbye this morning.

 

The roads between home and his destination are clear. The weather is good and he’s an excellent driver. It’s more likely something would happen on the drive downtown during rush hour than on what is probably a sparsely populated highway. I’ve almost been hit three times in the past week just pulling out of our driveway by people deciding that the stop sign is merely a suggestion. (Okay…so “almost hit” is maybe a bit of an exaggeration.) Point is, I KNOW he’s just as safe today as he is any other day…maybe even more so. I won’t see him any less tonight than normal. (And by normal I do NOT mean the schedule for the next couple of weeks with TheKid’s wrestling schedule. Sheesh!) If anything he’ll be home earlier than I will.

 

I miss him every workday anyway but the distance today has heightened that…logically or not. I’m never fully content until we’re both under the same roof but have started taking too much of our time together for granted. So maybe today was necessary to remind me how good I’ve got it.

 

But until I can wrap my arms around him and nuzzle into his shoulder, I’m not going to relax.


This is NOT a political post…much

I have refrained from writing anything political over the past few months. In fact, I have done my best to refrain from discussing anything political with anyone over the past few months. Even Jon and I, who can openly talk about any and everything, have pretty much ignored that particular topic. We don’t agree on all the issues and there are some that one or the other feels much more strongly about than the other. But we’ve watched the debates and some interviews together. We’ve enjoyed all the political satire and we’ll go to the polls together tonight. I’ve known for awhile now who was getting my vote. I’ve done my due diligence and almost everything I’ve read, seen & heard from the candidates has simply strengthened that position. I do not think my candidate of choice is the solution to the world’s problems and I don’t think the other guy would destroy us. I respect both candidates. I don’t agree 100% with either one. But I do feel strongly about my choice. I will be voting after work and I hope that if you haven’t, that you take advantage of this privilege. I hope you appreciate that if you don’t agree with the current administration, you can express those views without fear of being thrown in jail or killed. We can have heated discussions around the water cooler, dinner table or in the grocery store line without fear of retribution beyond cold shoulders, glares and maybe a few choice words.

 

Tomorrow we will (hopefully) wake up and know who our next president will be. We will celebrate or mourn over our cups of coffee. There will be a few days of decompression. This campaign season has gotten many people involved in the future of our country that have never paid attention before. My hope is that when the ballots are counted and the lawn signs have come down, we will all maintain a bit of that spark. I hope we will all remember that we can impact our country every year, year round. There are Americans living in our backyard that need shelter and food. There are people who just need a hand up to get back on their feet. There are elderly who need someone to care for them…to check in, to help out, to appreciate the lives they’ve lived. There are young people who need guidance, who need to be shown that there is hope and options.

 

The election today is important. But even more so is how we handle our country after it is all said and done. Do we go back to our relatively comfortable lives or do we continue to try and make a difference in our world? McCain isn’t going to encourage the child in THAT neighborhood to do well in school and break the cycle of un-education and poverty. Obama isn’t going to feed the elderly lady down the street who can’t get to the grocery store on her own. That’s up to us.

 

 

 

 


It was a bleak and stormy morning…

But it wasn’t dark!

I gotta tell you guys, I was getting really tired of not seeing sunlight until after 9:00AM. So even though it is overcast and wet outside this morning, the muted grayish light was very much welcome. I even caught some hints of blue & pink in the southeast this morning and once, was almost blinded by a bright ray of sunshine that broke through for a moment.

Once upon a time (in a land far far away…) TheKid and I were often out and about until 7:30 or 8 at night and I hated this time change (I REALLY dislike driving in the dark…)  Now, we’re generally settled in at home by 6:00. If we go anywhere after that, it’s as a family (and I’m not driving).  It’s not cold and I haven’t had to deal with snow yet so how badly winter mentally kicks my rear remains to be seen. I don’t have a history of handeling it well but I’d LIKE to think I learned some coping techniques over the past couple of years. I still need to stock up on the thickest, fuzziest socks I can find and hide some tasty gourment hot chocolate mixes somewhere the kids won’t find.  But as soon as that’s done, bring on the winter. With sunshine in the morning and evenings spent contently at home, I think I’m ready for it this year.

Just hopefully not for TOO long. I am already looking forward to basking in the heat again.


Epic fail

Taking any pictures worth posting for Weekly Winners? Fail.

The attempted carmel apple bites? Turned into bits of apple sitting in puddles of caramel that are impossible to remove from the wax paper. Which might be humorous some other day but today…?

Fail.

This day in general…fail.

I’ll be back tomorrow. Maybe even with a better attitude.


Post Halloween

Halloween has always been the second biggest holiday of the year for me in terms of decorating and celebration and activities. Not so much this year.

TheKid is eleven and in middle school so it wasn’t difficult to bribe him out of trick or treating this year. We rented a couple of movies and promised to buy him some candy. Voila. Happy kid. The younger two were with their mother. So we opted to head out to a relaxed dinner and people watching before settling in at home with the movies…and the porch light off. It was rather odd not planning and preparing our usual traditions but I think Jon and I have started a new one…

the post Halloween candy sale extravaganza

(No, the boys do NOT know about our stash.)

I think I’ll like this tradition.

Oh…and for all of you out there who recognize it as such, Happy New Year!


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