Daily Archives: November 17, 2009

Haha just kidding

So remember a few days ago when I said that Jon hasn’t had an allergy breakout lately?

Yes. Well.

Apparently the only reason he didn’t have symptoms was thanks to a handy little prescription of Xyzal. A handy little prescription that ran out a few days ago. Tonight his lip swelled up as bad as it ever has and he developed the lump in his throat. He took a couple of Benadryl and went to bed. So far no hives which is, I suppose, a small blessing. At least he’s not itching although for my OWN personal reassurance I’d prefer the hives to the swollen throat.  I’m sure he’d disagree in the light of his comfort.

So, on the one hand, yay for modern medicine. At least we know the symptoms can be managed. But on the other hand, MANAGING SYMPTOMS DOESN’T GIVE US ANSWERS. Neither does me freaking out but you guys. I’m more than a little concerned. Right now he’s FINE. I mean if you count a lip that looks like evidence of spousal abuse and a lump in his throat as “fine”. But he’s breathing okay and he doesn’t look like he has some odd skin disease and he’s not itching. And yet – obviously the only reason he hasn’t had continuous symptoms is the meds. Which means there’s a continued exposure to some elusive allergen. And can’t continued exposure lead to ana..anaph…anaphylactic shock? Well look at this from WebMD…(and if you don’t want to read it, I’ll sum it up for you afterwards)

Anaphylaxis is a serious, potentially life-threatening allergic response that is marked by swelling, hives, lowered blood pressure, and dilated blood vessels. In severe cases, a person will go into shock. If anaphylactic shock isn’t treated immediately, it can be fatal.

This condition occurs when the immune system creates specific disease-fighting antibodies (called immunoglobulin E or IgE) toward a substance that is normally harmless, such as food. When you are first exposed to the substance, your body does not react, but it does produce the antibodies. When you are exposed to the substance again, the antibodies spring into action, releasing large amounts of a protein called histamine. Histamine causes the symptoms described above.

What Are the Symptoms of Anaphylaxis?

Anaphylaxis may begin with severe itching of the eyes or face and, within minutes, progress to more serious symptoms. These symptoms include swallowing and breathing difficulties, abdominal pain, cramps, vomiting, diarrhea, hives, and angioedema (swelling similar to hives, but the swelling is beneath the skin instead of on the surface).

If you have symptoms of anaphylaxis, seek emergency medical attention immediately. The condition can quickly result in an increased heart rate, sudden weakness, a drop in blood pressure, shock, and ultimately unconsciousness and death.”

(Emphasis added by me)

If you didn’t want to read all that basically it says the symptoms he’s having can be a prelude to LIFE THREATENING ISSUES.

He’s so miserable and I don’t know what to do for him. I don’t know that there’s anything I CAN do for him except let him rest. I want to fix it. I’m wracking my brain trying to figure out what we introduced new, what’s different. My husband is having continuous severe allergic reactions and I can’t protect him and I should. It’s my responsibility and privilege to give him and our boys a safe, clean home to enjoy and there’s something – SOMETHING – I’m missing that turns it from a home into a poisonous pit.

I don’t know you guys. I just don’t know. Except I’m worried and that doesn’t help matters. And he needs to get to an allergist. Stat.


Mama’s little birdie

When I was growing up, my mother had a little bird. We never saw the stupid thing but lemmie tell ya, it had a big mouth. We couldn’t do ANYTHING without little birdie telling on us.  As we grew up, we heard less and less of it until we had children of our own. Then we received our own little birdies. Our mother (now Nana) kept hers too so my poor kid, aka the first grandchild, got a double dose.

TheKid is twelve so I haven’t pulled out the “A little birdie told me” in awhile.

Last night I was standing in the kitchen making meatballs. TheKid was sitting at the dining room table directly behind me doing homework. The other two were just around the corner in the living room playing video games. I’m wrist deep in raw meat and seasonings when I hear the 6 year old start whining and fussing at his brother.

“LilBit – if you’re going to be grouchy & fussy at your brother, you’re not going to get to play, understand?” I called out

He huffed. Loudly.

“And huffing at me is just going to get you in trouble young man.”

I waited 3-5 seconds then followed up with “And so will rolling your eyes!”

The living room went silent – then the whispering started up furiously. I turned to glance at TheKid and share a laugh only to find him staring at me in shock.

“You didn’t even look at him! How did you know?”

I grinned. “Remember my little birdie?”

He sighed deeply as he turned back around shaking his head. I waited for a declaration of how he’s TWELVE and NOT stupid… Instead I hear him mutter “I HATE that stupid bird.”

I couldn’t help it. I laughed.


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